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Where Do You Draw the Line?

AKA/The Sex Blog! I have a few questions: Is it legal for a man and a woman to have sex if they are not married? Is it legal for a man and a woman to have sex if they are married? Is it legal for a man and a man to have sex if they are not married? Is it legal for a man and a…

By Mark Timmons2 min readJump to 131 comments

AKA/The Sex Blog!

I have a few questions:

Is it legal for a man and a woman to have sex if they are not married?

Is it legal for a man and a woman to have sex if they are married?

Is it legal for a man and a man to have sex if they are not married?

Is it legal for a man and a man to have sex if they are married?

Is it legal for a woman and a woman to have sex if they are not married?

Is it legal for a woman and a woman to have sex if they are married?

Is it legal for three (4,5, 6, 7, 8, etc) to have sex if they are not married?

Is it legal to have “rough sex” if you are not married?

Is it legal to have rough sex if you are married?

What is rough sex and when does it cross the line?

Is it legal for a man to have sex with a goat, chicken, sheep, or skunk?

Only one of those questions is ridiculous. Different people have different ideas about all the rest, but if you think the last question is legal, you are a sick individual. Has Trevor Bauer admitted to “rough sex” with the accusing woman? Yes. But, he has not said how rough. He does not have to say that right about now, nor will his lawyers allow that. There will be a time and place for that… and maybe it will be in a criminal court, but with each passing day, I believe that it becomes less likely.

If Bauer had done and admitted what many of you think he has done, he would be charged already. Most of the National Writers who write about this have absolutely no clue. They saw the photos and accusations and have connected the dots. Maybe Bauer is guilty… maybe he is not, but those who believe the accusations are true and that he “has admitted them” are sadly mistaken. If he had admitted it, he would have already been charged.

I have no opinion as to his guilt or innocence. I do not like Trevor Bauer, but I think he is amusing. I have rooted for him because he was a Dodger. I have no opinion as to what will happen unless he is criminally charged. If he is charged, his career is likely over, regardless of the outcome… at least his Dodger career. Let the process play out, but if he is not charged MLB and Rob Manfred have a big problem and they have to figure out how to handle it.

Jumping to conclusions is not an Olympic Sport!

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  1. BearSeptember 17, 2021

    Bauer is persona non grata at this point. He is not relevant to the Dodgers anymore for this season. His fate will be decided by people with more knowledge of the situation than any of us. As for whether he pitches again anywhere in the majors, all of those questions cannot be answered until all of the legal issues are resolved. Then if MLB ultimately suspends him, the MLBPA and MLB will go toe to toe to see how that issue is resolved. That being said, it does not impact the rest of this season since he will not pitch for the Dodgers.

  2. BlutoSeptember 17, 2021

    Not even a fun read, and a useless one to boot.

    Legality is, for a multiple time, irrelevant. As are individual personal (yours, mine) views on the issue. The aggregate does matter.

    It’s like the Scarlet Letter or Roth’s Human Stain. What matters is the sullying. Aesthetics.

  3. BadgerSeptember 17, 2021

    I don’t believe it’s any coincidence that we haven’t heard a thing about where this stands legally. It will all be resolved after the season because too much money is on the line in MLB to have the black eye nationally exposed. Whatever is to be decided will be decided after the World Series is over.

    Any fan’s personal opinion on Bauer is meaningless. I personally don’t give a damm what went on between those two. I’m not so naive as to believe this is unusual and/or unacceptable behavior. I happen to know this kind of activity is quite popular among consenting adults. My take? Simple. What people do behind closed doors is their business, not mine. As for the accusations at this point that’s all they are and there have been many men, some of considerable high social and political standing, that have been accused of bad behavior yet continued doing their jobs as lawyers and courts continued doing theirs, which is to drag proceedings out into as many billable hours as possible.

    The Dodgers have moved on. Bauer is finished here. As to the question if he pitches again somewhere else, who gives a sh*t?

  4. MushersPopSeptember 17, 2021

    As recent as 2017 the answer to your last question was, in Texas, yes. And I think the Rangers could use an upgrade in pitching.

  5. Andrew Vincent ForteSeptember 17, 2021

    Right or wrong,it’s perception that will prevent Bauer from ever throwing another pitch as a LA Dodger.There will be another team that will eventually sign Bauer after the Dodgers release him and still paying the remainder of his contract unless he settles with them at a lower amount and moves on. He is not worth the drama and distraction from the actual game itself he will cause.

  6. DodgerLoverSeptember 17, 2021

    Wrong guy to make excuses for. Goodbye Trevor and goodbye LADT.

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